The Origins Of Valentine's Day
Valentine's Day has become a major
celebration for lovers the world over. But the origins of
Saint Valentine's Day is lost in a confusion of
conflicting stories and legends. Here's another point of
view from the editors of Life Gold Coast magazine:
Every February 14 around the
world, we anticipate flowers and gifts from our
loved ones or those we admire from afar, all in
the name of St Valentine. But the history of
Valentine's Day and its patron saint is
shrouded in mystery, containing vestiges of
both Christian and ancient Roman
traditions.
The Catholic Church recognises at least three different
saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of whom were
martyred. One legend contends that Valentine was a priest
who served during the third century in Rome.
When the emperor Claudius decided that single men made
better soldiers than those with wives and families, he
outlawed marriage for young men. Realising the injustice of
the decree, Valentine defied Claudius and continued to
perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When
Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that
he be put to death.
Other stories suggest that Valentine may have been killed
for attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman
prisons where they were often beaten and tortured.
According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first
Valentine greeting.
While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love
with a young girl who visited him during his confinement.
Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter,
which he signed 'From your Valentine,' an expression that
is still in use today.
Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky,
stories are united in their characterisation of him as a
romantic, heroic figure, so much so that by the Middle
Ages, Valentine was one of the most popular saints in
England and France.
In modern times, flowers and chocolates have become
standard fare. But this year, why not please your Valentine
with something he or she would really enjoy? A picnic, just
the two of you. An evening at a romantic film or a real
“date” like the early days of your relationship, complete
with a romantic stroll along the beach or sitting under the
stars, holding hands.
Relationship experts agree that even though you may view
Valentine's Day as a marketing gimmick, it's a great day to
spend some time with your significant other to let them
know how much you value them.
Psychologist Dr Julie Rosengren says: “I remember an older
man said to me once about his 35-year-old relationship with
his wife: 'Every day is a Valentine's Day with us. Every
day we show love for each other.' I agree. Every day it's
important to show love to each other.
Valentine's Day is an opportunity maybe for some to
celebrate that love in a more pronounced or special way.
Valentine's Day is commercial but it's also an opportunity
to be romantic.”
So you don't have to buy anything; just focus on the
special person in your life. Or you could indulge in any
number of amazing gifts. Just see these pages for
ideas.
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reproduced with permission.
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