The Smell Of Sweet Perfume
Wearing perfume is a very feminine
indulgence, a custom that's been used throughout the
centuries for two very different purposes.
One reason a woman wears perfume is to excite the senses of the
man (or men) in her life, making herself more desirable in the
process. But on a more personal level, a woman wears perfume to
please herself - to enhance her sense of femininity, and to
associate herself with a signature scent that lets people know,
“Hi, this is me”.
How Perfume Becomes Unique
The interesting thing about perfume is that it has the ability
to become unique to the wearer. A perfume will smell a little
different on each woman who wears it, because the perfume
mingles with the natural, idiosyncratic scent of her skin,
creating a combination of scents that is uniquely her.
Perfume – Luxury Or
Necessity?
You could consider perfume a luxury item because we really
don't need it to go about our daily lives. Or do we?
Throughout history, and probably prehistory as well, women have
pampered their bodies with perfume, from Cleopatra through to
the present day. In the period before commercial perfume was
available, women rubbed flower essences on their skin to create
a pleasing scent.
As always, the wealthy had access to better sources of perfumed
products, because they had the money to pay for both products
and people to prepare and process them. This helped create the
association of perfume with luxury, wealth and privilege.
Today, many designer perfumes continue the tradition of being
so outrageously expensive that they are beyond the range of the
average working woman.
However, many experts argue that the ready availability of
inexpensive light, fresh perfumes for daily wear suggests that
women should wear some kind of perfume any time they engage in
social interaction. It's the rare person who can stay fresh all
day by relying on a shower, shampoo and antiperspirant.
So if women wear perfume to feel fresh, attractive, sexy and
confident, it stands to reason that this frame of mind is
desirable in any social encounter.
Choosing A Perfume
Most women, at any one time, will have one or two perfumes that
they identify with. And this is subject to change, depending on
their personal circumstances.
Perhaps at a certain time in her life, a woman will discover a
perfume that she absolutely falls in love with. She wears it
everywhere and it becomes her signature scent. But as her
circumstances change, she perceives herself as a different
person and begins to experiment with new perfumes, along with
new clothes, apartments, partners and so on. Several major
transitions in a woman's life, from teenage years though
university to first job and marriage, will trigger an impulse
to redefine herself, and her choice in perfume will be one of
the aspects that changes.
Perhaps a young woman has just graduated from university and is
applying for her first job. She may look for a scent that says,
“Look out, World! Here I come!” Career girl, potential business
tycoon - whatever her image is of where she's going, she wants
a perfume that reflects her new self.
Another young woman decides to purchase her first apartment.
Perhaps the perfume she wears is a sweet, flowery, young girl
scent, but now she sees herself as a woman of responsibility.
She decides she needs a more mature scent, one that projects a
more adult image.
Which brings us to another important consideration. A woman
will often wear different perfumes at different times of the
day, or depending on her mood. The bright, breezy scent she
wears at the office or doing errands is not what she'd choose
for a romantic dinner in a beautiful restaurant. Or the sexy
fragrance she wears with her lover is not what she chooses for
a business lunch with a male colleague.
Tips For Buying Perfume As A
Gift
So when you're buying perfume as a gift, you need to know some
facts about the person you're buying for. Firstly, you need to
know her favorite perfume or perfumes at the moment. Or you
need to know the name of a perfume that she wants but doesn't
own yet.
Because you don't want to get it wrong. Women are very
particular about the perfumes that they wear. They won't wear a
scent that their senses tell them is too sweet, cloying or
heavy, or unattractive in some other way. And often they'll be
too polite to tell you that you've chosen badly.
If you don't know someone's preferences, ask her mother or her
best friend. Or admire her perfume and ask for the name. When
you choose the right perfume, you'll be giving a gift that's
guaranteed to please.
For information of cologne and aromatherapy, visit these
pages:
Cologne and Toiletries For Men
Aromatherapy
Recommended Perfume Sites
The following sites offer a wide range of perfumes for
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- USA
- Perfume.com
Offers over 12,000 new, hard to find & discontinued
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- FragranceX.com
Offers thousands of products from all of the top designers
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ThePerfumeSpot.com
Offers a variety of fragrances, bath & body products
& candles
- FragranceNet.com
Provides access to a large inventory of genuine brand name
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- Europe/UK
- Perfume4u
Offers a full range of perfume, aftershave and
fragrance
- The
Fragrance Shop
Offers assorted fragrance to walk away with the perfect
fragrance
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Perfume WorldWide
A source for colognes, assorted fragrances and perfumes
- Australasia
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StrawberryNET.com
Japanese web site stocks all major cosmetics, skin care
products, make up and fragrance brands. Offers free
shipping worldwide
- Perfume.com.au
This Australian site features brand name fragrances for men
and women
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