How To Turn Your Shy Lover Into A Tigress
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. . With Sexy LingerieIf you're like most men, you
probably have a highly developed response to visual
stimuli. Which means you enjoy looking at beautiful
women, whether in magazines and walking down the street,
in gorgeous clothes and without them. It's also likely
that you find women's sexy lingerie very visually
appealing. But that doesn't mean the woman in your life
is necessarily willing to indulge that preference.
There are a couple of reasons for this. Women, in general, tend
to utilize more of their senses at any one time, especially in
intimate situations. So while sex may involve a huge visual
component for you, your partner is focusing on sights, sounds,
touch, taste and smell, all at the same time. She doesn't
understand the importance of visual stimuli for you, so she can
easily dismiss your request for her to wear sexy lingerie.
But the second reason is probably more important. Most women
still live with the culturally imposed expectation that they
need to be young and beautiful in order to be desirable. They
do daily battle comparing themselves to the impossible
standards of beauty offered up in magazines, film and
television. So very few women are satisfied with their
appearance, and can be very ruthless in identifying and
cataloguing their so-called flaws. No matter how often you tell
your lover she's beautiful – and you'd better do this at least
once a day if you want the relationship to flourish - at some
deep level she won't believe you, and will rationalize that
you're temporarily blind to her flaws because you love her.
So it's highly unlikely that she'll want to strut around the
bedroom in revealing lingerie because she'll feel inadequate
wearing it.
Here is one strategy for changing the situation in a slow and
non-threatening way.
Start a Small
ConspiracyIf you have a reluctant
partner who won't indulge your fantasy of seeing her in
nothing but high heels and a garter belt, it might be a
thought to ease off on the pressure and approach things
another way.
Buy your lover some lovely, feminine lingerie from a better
quality store like Victoria's Secret. (Forget the crotchless
panties for now – that comes later if you practice a little
patience.)
Present your gift with no strings attached. Tell her you simply
want the pleasure of knowing that she's walking around in those
gorgeous little bits of nothing, and that nobody knows about it
except you and her. Resist the temptation to ask her to model
your gift or you'll be right back to Square One.
Give her other little gifts along the same lines from time to
time. And eventually she'll be the one who can't wait to show
off her sexy lingerie to you.
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